curious thoughts {use it up, wear it out…}

Zack and I are members of a small group of married couples that meets on a weekly basis to study and discuss the Bible, share about our lives, eat some good food and fellowship with each other. There are six couples in the group, and we have been meeting together for over 3 years. We all got married around the same time, all bought houses around the same time, and will probably all end up having kids around the same time. The first “new member” of the small group was just born a few weeks ago, and I think the baby itch is starting to spread among the women. Oh boy!

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Anyways, we are currently reading through the book Don’t Waste Your Life by John Piper. Last week, Piper introduced a phrase that I had heard in passing before, but never really thought about. The phrase is “Use it up, wear it out, make it do, or do without.” In the context of the book, Piper was using this an a foundation for a discussion about living with a “wartime lifestyle” and finding out satisfaction in Christ alone. The chapter was very thought provoking, but what really stuck with me was this phrase. I have been thinking about it in the context of my own life, and in the context of where our nation is economically.

Now, I don’t claim to know all that much about politics, or history, or the economy. But, I do know that this phrase was coined by the women of the Great Depression. I also know that right now our nation is facing one of the most challenging economic times in its history. I won’t go into details, because we all know the stats. I just wonder why, in the face of this economic crisis, we turn to credit cards instead of penny pinching? I know that this is not the case across the board, and I certainly don’t want to make a blanket statement, because I know full well that there are many families out there who are being creative in finding ways to stretch their dollar in the face of the current economy.

My main point in bringing this up is simply to give you and I something to chew on. I want to learn to live with less, and be content with what I have. I also want to learn to get creative and “use it up, wear it out, make it do, or do without.” I think that is a great battle-cry for anyone to have, whether rich or poor. Being wasteful with our resources is never wise, and learning contentment is a priceless lesson.

great giveaway {FLOR modular carpet tiles!}

Today is an exciting day here on b*spoke blog! Not only do I have some good news on the progress of the kitchen, I also have a stellar giveaway for you all. In this post, I mentioned that I had chosen a rug for the kitchen; specifically the Popcorn rug from the Home Movies collection, made by FLOR. Well, when the wonderful folks over at FLOR contacted me and offered to hook me up with a 5×7 rug-of-choice, I was thrilled! However, the real cherry on top came when they also offered to give a FREE 5×7 RUG to one of my lucky readers!! Details are below… be sure to enter for your chance to win!

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  • PRIZE: One FREE 5′ x 7′ FLOR rug (excluding Shabby Sheep and Coir)
  • TO ENTER: Just comment on this post with the words, “I’ll be FLORed…” Feel free to finish up the sentence if you’d like! (i.e. I’ll be FLORed if it really hits 75 degrees today!)
  • ENTER BEFORE: Wednesday, April 7th at 4 pm CST
  • WINNER ANNOUNCED: Thursday, April 8th
  • PRIZE SHIPS: Anywhere in the U. S. of A.
  • DETAILS: One entry per e-mail address is permitted. The winner will be chosen using random.org.

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Now that we have the really exciting stuff out of the way, I have to share my two cents on the FLOR system of modular carpet tiles. First of all, I’d never had any experience with modular carpeting, but I figured it couldn’t be much more difficult than laying stick-on linoleum tiles (which I have done a few times). When my rug arrived in a 2′ x 2′ x 6″ box, I was ready to get going! Detailed instructions were included, along with a bunch of these sticky FLOR Dots.

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I laid out my tiles on the floor in the kitchen, and determined that I wanted to do a 4′ x 8′ rug. The greatest part of this system is the flexibility! I ended up with two tiles left over from my 5′ x 7′ rug, which I will hold on to and use as replacements if when one of the original carpet tiles gets stained (it’s bound to happen in the kitchen, with my tendency towards spills…oops).

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Once my carpet tiles were in place, I grabbed my FLOR Dots, and got busy sticking. The process was extremely simple, as I just lined up the corners on the pre-printed guide marks and stuck the carpet down using a bit of firm pressure.

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Once the whole carpet was stuck together, I stepped back to admire my work. Sticking the rug together took less than 10 minutes, and I was very pleased by the results. The carpet is solid and there are no gaps or spaces between the tiles. Besides the ease-of-use and amazing quality of the rug, I am completely thrilled with the color and comfort of this rug. It makes the kitchen feel so much cozier, and the tones tie in perfectly with the new look of the kitchen. Which, by the way, will be revealed very, very soon! I have just a few more things to touch up, and then I will be taking the “after” pictures.

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Oh, I must also mention that Emmy heartily approves of the new rug in the kitchen! She might look unsure here, but it’s only because she was wondering if I was going to make her get up from her new favorite spot to sleep.

crafty girl {shabby sleek greetings}

It’s time for me to share a few more details on the Shabby Sleek Greetings project that I collaborated on with Maddy (of Inspired Bride) for Nonpareil Magazine. Get ready for loads of pictures!

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Almost six months ago, Maddy and I met each other for the first time over a tasty dinner in downtown Minneapolis. We talked about design, blogging, her life growing up in New York, and my life growing up in northern Minnesota. The conversation also touched on the possibility of collaborating on a project of some sort. We tossed around a couple ideas, and over the course of the next several months stayed in touch.

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Fast forward to February, my house, on a sunny Saturday afternoon. Maddy and I were sitting around the dining room table, up to our elbows in crafting supplies, and an abundance of creative energy buzzing through our veins. Together we planned, purchased and assembled the various elements of the greeting table we had dreamed up together.

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On the day of the photoshoot, we headed to !Delaney Photography in Minneapolis. Now, before I go on, it’s essential that I give you a tour of this Amazing studio. Yes, it truly was Amazing with a capital ‘A’. Maddy and I were drooling over the details of this place. Check it out for yourself:

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I love the mix of old and new, finished and raw.

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Anyways, back to business… Once we arrived at the studio, Maddy and I laid out all of our materials. Our wonderful stylist, Nicole Uphoff, joined in the fun and began potting the small succulents.

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Meanwhile, Maddy and I got busy working on the paper details.

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Nicole is a professional stylist, and has been in the industry for 17 years. She was wonderful to work with and learn from. These are the various surfaces that she brought to the studio for us to choose from. We ended up shooting on the dark wood surface and one of the white shutters.

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The wall that we shot against was painted the day of, using Restoration Hardware’s “Graphite”. While working together on this project at the cottage, Maddy and I agreed that we loved the warm gray tone in my bedroom, so we used the same paint color for our backdrop.

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Styling each shot was an involved process that took into account placement and lighting. We combined the various elements that we wanted, and Nicole fine-tuned the details, with the help of Maddy, Arin Kukulis (another stylist/art director), and myself.

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When the set was ready, several test shots were taken, and we tweaked as needed based on the results.

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Here’s the whole gang (Arin, Nicole, Dan, and Maddy) checking photos.

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We ended up shooting a total of seven sets/scenes. You can see them all by viewing the Shabby Sleek Greetings article (click on the right arrow to scroll through the pages). Once the photos were taken, Maddy worked her magic, and wrote up a fantastic how-to on the various elements of the greeting table, including the wishing tree, programs, escort cards and potted succulent favors. This, of course, all ended up on the virtual pages of Nonpareil Magazine!

This project was truly a joy to work on, and I learned a great deal about styling, and how art directors, stylists, and photographers work together. Additionally, I gained a great friend along the way. If you enjoyed seeing this project, you will be glad to hear that Maddy and I have already met and began planning our next collaboration for issue #4 of Nonpareil. Stay tuned!

*Last two photos taken by Dan Delaney of !Delaney Photography. Concepts and art direction by Maddy Hague and Bethany Hway. Styling by Nicole Uphoff. Additional style and art direction support by Arin Kukulis. Calligraphy by Xandra Zamora of XYZ Ink.

crafty girl {shabby sleek greetings}

Remember in February when I was crazy/busy? I had a series of guest bloggers, and somehow managed to make it through one very jam-packed month. I revealed Secret Project #1 to you already, in the form of the Vintage Valentines photoshoot that was later featured on Style Me Pretty. I also think I mentioned Secret Project #2, but thus far, have not revealed its identity. Well, my lovely readers, the day has finally come that I can throw back the curtain and let you in on the other project that was keeping me busy last month!

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Issue #2 of the amazing Nonpareil Magazine is out (congrats to my dear friend Maddy Hague, who is one half of the brilliant team behind this online pub), and I am thrilled to announce that the Shabby Sleek Greetings project was a joint collaboration between Maddy and myself!! We brainstormed, shopped, crafted, designed, printed, arranged, and tweaked together, and in the process became great friends. Check out the step-by-step how-to on creating all the various elements for your own greeting table. And check back here next week for all the behind-the-scenes stuff! I’ll have pictures and stories to share. Have a great weekend everyone!

curious thoughts {serving/loving}

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What is love to you? Is it something that you have, or desire, or give? How do you show love? Do you have conditions for loving others, or letting them love you?

These questions, and others on the topic of love, have been filling my head lately. I don’t know the answers, and many of them are just personal introspections. One thing I have realized for certain, however, is that serving and loving are connected in a deep and powerful way. Now, I am not talking about going to the soup kitchen and then broadcasting it to the world, “Look at me! I am great and loving and kind! I just gave three hours of my day to serve others.” No, this is not love. Love is deeper, more sacrificial, and mysterious. It’s picking up after your husband without complaining (or pointing out the wonderful act of kindness that you just did). It’s waking in the middle of the night to comfort a crying child, and not thinking about lost sleep. It’s taking the criticism without a comeback. It’s complimenting and encouraging, when you would really rather not. Love is selfless, and humble. It gives when no one is looking. It empties itself, even when no one is filling.

The words below are often read at weddings, and may even sound cliche, but they are powerful and true, and a wonderful picture of what love really is.

Love suffers long and is kind; love does not envy;
love does not parade itself, is not puffed up;
does not behave rudely, does not seek its own,
is not provoked, thinks no evil; does not rejoice in iniquity,
but rejoices in the truth; bears all things, believes all things,
hopes all things, endures all things. Love never fails.

1 Corinthians 13:4-8a

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